IT WAS LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT, SOUL ATTRACTION AT FIRST SIGHT
The romantics want to say that it was love at first sight. However with some exceptions, it is generally attraction at first sight or infatuation at first sight. It is possible for love to grow between 2 people who spend time associating with each other, without actually seeing each other in person. You can get to know someone and experience feelings for them without seeing them first. So in that scenario, it is possible that it was love at first sight, and there may be other love at first sight possibilities.
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| Love At First sight |
There may be those who may claim that they were soul mates at first sight. Well, with God all things are possible, and Jesus said in Matthew 19:4-6; He answered them, "Haven’t you read that the one who made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female’ and said, ‘That is why a man will leave his father and mother and be united with his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, man must never separate." God is always working in our lives and He can bring two people together. But just because you are attracted to someone, does not mean that they are your love at first sight. And, even if God does bring two people together, it does not mean that they fell in love at first sight. God can bring two people together, but there is generally a relational growth period of some kind. So if a couple says that God brought them together, that is certainly quite believable.
Sometimes those romantic love at first sight wishes are hampered by attraction at first sight. Attraction can lead to heightened interest, excitement, and to emotional arousal. Sometimes the desires of men and women overtake their judgment abilities. Men and women are far too often looking for exterior physical looks and they miss the true inner beauty. Just because you find someone attractive does not mean that you have fallen in love with them. You may be mentally or emotionally aroused do to a physical attraction, however that does not mean that it was love at first sight. Often times men and women are in such a rush to find their soul mates, that they take the first thing that comes along, and they miss the person that God was trying to connect them with. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world. 1 John 2:16
There are times when men or women miss what God has for them because their expectations are too high or because they do not feel worthy for some reason. Just because someone does not appear to line up to be your perfect woman or make your perfect man list, does not mean that they are not perfect for you. God knows you better than you know yourself and he knows who would be the best match for you. Have you ever had someone tell you what their soul mate should be like? They were so finicky, so picky, that they would miss their best love at first sight opportunity because a guy was only 1 inch taller than them, or because a woman wore her hair up. Have you ever heard a woman say, he has to be like this, he must be like that, he must like to do this, he must like to do that? I do not think they have a drive thru where Barbie can make such a detailed creation of Ken, maybe they could do it with play doh though. Finding the right person for you, begins with you being the right person. Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, But a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised.
Love At First Sight Quotes
She was a vision in a white gown her dark hair forming a hazy halo around her rosy heart-shaped face. Her long lashes fluttered to touch her cheeks and then her eyes opened fully in his direction. Her small round mouth flexed in an immediate and knowing smile. That's the girl I'm going to marry Henry thought.
― Anna Godbersen, Rumors
Allo, darlin’. Oi’m so glad to see it’s love at first sight for you, too.
― Elizabeth Haydon, Rhapsody: Child of Blood
As he satin the tree he looked down at the girl in the floral dress and felt his heart miss a beat.
― Isabella Kruger, Afterlife
I didn't know you would be here last night, but you were. We can't fight fate. Instead, we must accept that fate has given us a special opportunity.
― Lisa See, Peony in Love
He's just not that into you if he is a sociopath.
― Coco J. Ginger
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| Love Makes feel |
Love is like the wind, you can't see it but you can feel it.
― Nicholas Sparks A Walk to Remember
It was strange what Chris was feeling within, but he didn’t mind for he was loving her.
― Moffat Machingura, How I Kissed Heartbreak Goodbye
Make your choice and make it quick, either build a real heart, or get out of my way QUICK.
― Coco J. Ginger
Did my courage make you crazy? Cripple you with the unknown?
Did my silence create desire—make you feel things you could not discern?
Is my shinning light exploding? Can your eyes not yet adjust?
Is my forgiveness running through you? Knowing your pain I will not digest?
Is my confidence disrupting the girl you LOVE to HATE the most?
― Coco J. Ginger
….watch me rise like smoke from fire.
Watch me fly above your hate.
Watch me dance upon your meanness
like a ballerina with posture; grace.
Watch me laugh over your hatred;
watch me soar above your sea of grief.
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| Love at first sight makrs people fall in Love |
And know that I am out there somewhere…
C R U S H I N G.
― Coco J. Ginger
I’m too tired to fight against you anymore, too tired to say you are wrong. Too tired apologizing, keeping me uping all nighting- criming by wasting my precious timing. Straggling against what I once called charming.
― Coco J. Ginger
I’m too tired, too tired hearing your mean-wording, your pretending, your name-calling, sorry, not sorry, words you write, I should forgive because you didn’t mean them right? Oh plus I deserved them? Alright.”
― Coco J. Ginger
Here I sit like a brainless robot writing the uncensored, chaotic, evil thoughts springing about in my temperamental female brain.”
― Coco J. Ginger
The white noise in his heart, the sum of all his colors
—the metronome to which he beat
[was she].
― Coco J. Ginge
Head high, heart in hell—
― Coco J. Ginger
I write with my spine, create through my heart and defiant mind. Happy or not happy, it’s real, it’s living like blood, pen and paper. Hearts that wake up racing, wanting. Trading fear in for the hurt, the hard, the challenge, the change, the pain, the stuff that makes you grow bigger, stronger, better. Granting you the crazy, the genius, the ability, the power to change the world.
― Coco J. Ginger
Coco J. Ginger
“My boy of steel. My man of honor. My perfect friend. My timeless soldier.”
― Coco J. Ginger
...just friends, over and over you said it again—-then you kissed me.”
― Coco J. Ginger
I’m tired of wanting to respond but never knowing what face you’ll be wearing, not knowing what mean or nice words you’ll be saying, so I stay silent knowing I can’t take another round of your uncontrolled verbs, your misinterpretations of my world. So many men? Yes, I have so many men, didn’t know that this text-fighting, me on the other side crying was exclusive to just us two.
― Coco J. Ginge
What is love, if not the abandonment of all sanity, all dignity?
― Coco J. Ginger
Rewriting the world one heart at a time.
― Coco J. Ginger
Writer? A complimentary term to conceal one’s insanitie.
― Coco J. Ginger
I can’t talk to you anymore.
I can’t talk to youwith words
with thoughts
with silence.I can’t talk to you anymore
(she won’t talk to you anymore).
― Coco J. Ginger
I know I’ve broken all the rules of all the games, that all the great players and best love calculators recommend that you play, if you want to make someone like you a lot. But that’s okay, because I give up. I’ve got my coffee sitting in my San Francisco cup, I’ve got Kona island and a working beating heart that’s not cold, hard, or numb—very workable and capable of loving, breaking, mending and repeating. So that’s just what I’ll do. Because I’m too tired. Too tired uping all nighting wasting my precious timing wishing it was your heart pumping, wanting me— like I used to want you.
― Coco J. Ginge
You’ll lie again, you’ll do it again. Friends, not friends, friends, not friends, I’m on your dime, I’m on your time, and I don’t exist where there is a YOU.
― Coco J. Ginger
Just friends? Alright friend we won’t kiss goodnight, and I won’t hold you tight and wish that you were mine just for one night. I will separate my dreams from my eyes, separate my heart from my spine, keep clean the lines between my hands and your innards.”
He was so busy socializing, making sure people approved and liked him, he didn't notice his precious ticks of time slipping away.He was so popular. But now...I was famous.
― Coco J. Ginger
I near felt bad he choose to be so evil. I am a forgiving woman, but my pen... oh my wicked wicked hormonal she-pen.
― Coco J. Ginger
Tar-heart baby, let me be, let me shine bright, stop making fun of me. Stop bringing up my past un-funs.”
― Coco J. Ginger
Poor Mr. Zum now he was un-fun and had no funs left who wanted to entertain him. What a qerbackle, what an un-fun pickle to be in.”
― Coco J. Ginger
What had I done? Where was my fun? I wanted play, I wanted sun, he was the opposite —I called him Zum because he’s an un-fun, the sort of mean-fun bully on the playground-fun. Mean Mr. Zum.
This was madness, this was badness this was sadness this was too much un-fun-ness.
― Coco J. Ginger
She’s hanging free, at liberty.
― Coco J. Ginger
She is happy, she is bright.
― Coco J. Ginger
No one likes you tar-heart baby, no one likes un-fun-ness.
― Coco J. Ginger
You're too big for another heart beat, unable to sync with my capricious heart beating.
― Coco J. Ginger
ROSAURA
Soy de Estrella
una infelice dama.
SEGISMUNDO
No digas tal; di el sol, a cuya llama
aquella estrella vive,
pues de tus rayos resplandor recibe.
Yo vi en reino de olores
que presidía entre comunes flores
la deidad de la rosa;
y era su emperatriz por más hermosa.
Yo vi entre piedras finas
de la docta academia de sus minas
preferir el diamante,
y ser su emperador por más brillante.
Yo en esas cortes bellas
de la inquieta república de estrellas
vi en el lugar primero
por rey de las estrellas el lucero.
Yo en esferas perfectas,
llamando el sol a cortes los planetas,
le vi que presidía
como mayor oráculo del día.
Pues cómo, si entre flores, entre estrellas,
piedras, signos, planetas, las más bellas
prefieren, tú has servido
la de menos beldad, habiendo sido
por más bella y hermosa,
sol, lucero, diamante
― Calderon, La vida es sueño
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